Archive Monthly Archives: April 2018

Being kind to yourself when you’re struggling

Sometimes the people who are hardest on us are ourselves. In the midst of our grief, what we often need most is kindness and a soft place to land. While our loved ones can rally around and provide us with this softness, we also need to remember to be kind to ourselves. This article  is a lovely starting point for how you can begin to be compassionate with yourself as you grieve.

Speaking about the unspeakable

It can be hard to find the words to talk to someone about a topic that feels unspeakable – the loss of a baby. This can be made even more difficult when the situation is complicated, or feels unfamiliar. One example of this is when there is a diagnosis of fetal abnormality and a difficult decision has been made. This loss is heartbreaking for the parents-to-be, and being avoided because someone who doesn’t know the ‘perfect’ words can be very isolating. This article describes how to be there for someone who is grieving the loss of their little one.